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Spell it Out: Create a
Parent-Teen Driving Agreement
Your state's graduated licensing laws put restrictions on your driving. As you gain experience and remain collision-free, you gain additional rights.
Your parents also have a say in how you exercise your new privileges. They have an obligation to protect you - from your lack of experience, your impulses, and your vulnerability to peer pressure.
A Parent-Teen Driving Agreement can help put these protections in place and prevent family fights that occur when expectations and assumptions collide. By spelling out a contract, both parents and teens gain a clear understanding of commitment and consequences.
It's important to review and sign a contract BEFORE you are allowed to drive solo.
Look over this sample contract and then share it with your parents. Give them time to go over it and then schedule a family discussion. Both you and your parents sign off on the terms of the contract - which means you share an understanding of acceptable driving behavior.
Note that through this contract, your parents also are making commitments to support you in your goal of becoming a safe and responsible driver. For example, they will agree to pick you up - without lectures - if for some reason you feel it is unsafe for you to drive or be a passenger of another driver.
It's a good idea to also schedule a review date in six months or so. As you demonstrate good driving habits and mature judgment, your parents may be willing to broaden your privileges.
For more information, please see the brochure titled Driving Contracts or download a printable version.
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